June 21, 2013 - submitted by The Oracle, United Kingdom

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My wife left me. I am hurting. I made the promise of forever but apparently our vows didn't mean as much to her as they did to me. Now I stuck and don't know what to do. I want her back but she won't have me. But I am afraid to move on because I don't want to feel the deep pain and regret I am feeling now for making a commitment so deep and having my heart be discarded as if it meant nothing in the first place.
Got any advice? Nathan, USA.

Look forward to seeing your replies.
The Oracle

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