May 23, 2013 - submitted by Martin, Australia

Q. Hello Oracle, did Chris have anyone in particular on his mind while writing Shiver? Sort of going through the same thing right at this moment. Do you reckon I should move on or keep trying?

The Oracle replies:

Yes he did. I think the only way to answer this question is to imagine your best mate has asked you the same. What would you advise them to do?
Sometimes when it's happening to you, you're too close to see what the right thing to do is. I personally think you know in your gut whether you're wasting your time. Life's too short for both losing a love that could be and wasting time on a love that will never be.