July 1, 2011 - submitted by The Oracle, United Kingdom
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In April, I ended things with a guy. I still liked him alot, but I just didn't want a relationship. He took it really hard, and I'm pretty sure he hates me now. Whenever I try to talk to him, he keeps saying how I broke his heart and everything, and I'm starting to feel really bad and guilty about what happened. I know I have no reason to, I just didn't want a relationship, it was a mistake. But I still feel terrible. Now I can't stop saying I'm sorry, and he just won't forgive me.
At this point, he is being childish, but I can't take the guilt of knowing I've broken someones heart anymore. I don't know what to do about it if he won't accept my sincere apologies.
Also, a lot of his friends are starting to hate me now. Some of them are also my friends and I'm losing them.
Dear Oracle, please help me. I can't take the guilt and the hate. I don't know what to do anymore.
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