May 13, 2011 - submitted by The Oracle, United Kingdom

When I answer questions of a personal nature, readers often get in touch with their own thoughts. So, we now have a weekly feature, Team Oracle, whereby each Friday (with the question asker's permission) we open up a question to all of you to answer too. Then, the following Friday, I'll post a selection of the best answers, alongside my own reply.
ANYONE can join in so, if you'd like to, please email your response to the following question, in no more than 200 words, to before Thursday 19th May. This week a similar question to last week but from a guy who's struggling with his insecurities...

"Hello Oracle, my girlfriend and I just recently broke up and I'm falling apart. I don't know what to do with myself, she was my everything. It was my fault though, I have issues with my self-confidence and I'm always acting insecure. Those feelings eventually drove her away because I'm acting "too clingy." I'm trying to work on these feelings but I can't help the way I feel sometimes. I want her back more than anything else and I know she still has feelings for me as well, but I'm not sure if she still wants to be in a relationship with me. I could use your advice. Giovanni."

The Oracle replies:

Look forward to seeing your replies.
The Oracle